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According to a recent BBC News item, "The addictive nature of web browsing can leave you with an attention span of nine seconds - the same as a goldfish."
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People often mistakenly believe that listening is a passive activity…that to be a listener simply means to not speak when someone else is talking. However, good listening or "active" listening involves more than just sitting back and giving the speaker (i.e. the person who is talking) the spotlight. Many researchers state that attending to a conversation involves more than just one's ears - it is a function of the entire body as well as the mind.
Active listening can be divided into two main components: mental attentiveness and physical attentiveness. Physical attentiveness involves the outward practices of a listener; that is, behaviors that can be clearly observed. A good listener will speak in turn, make eye contact with the speaker, and display interest in the topic of conversation by nodding or smiling. Good listeners also tend to use verbal cues (e.g. "Uh huh", "I see", "Go on"), ask questions, and paraphrase what the speaker has said.
Mental attentiveness involves internal processes that a good listener practices. There are three aspects involved in mental attentiveness: perceiving, processing, and paying attention. Good listeners will give the speaker a chance to voice his or her thoughts, instead of jumping to conclusions or making premature judgments. They also take the time to think over what the speaker has said before offering a response, rather than trying to think of one while the person is talking. Practiced listeners are also able to focus their full attention on a person despite external distractions (i.e. background noise, other conversations) or internal distractions (i.e. personal issues, boredom).
The goal of the Listening Skills Test is to measure whether Mary processes what others tell her in an effective and sensitive manner. It will determine whether she uses appropriate verbal and non-verbal cues, and if she can maintain her focus on the speaker despite distractions, boredom, or the temptation to speak.
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